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What Is The “Daddy Meme,” And Why Are Adults Getting In A Fight Over It?

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Daddy Meme

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This is part of an occasional series in which we explain the internet things daddy meme. We like to call it meme-splaining; some might call it meme-ruining. Regardless, if you come across an image macro, hashtag, app, or GIF that puzzles you, we have the answers – at least as far as they can be had.

Let’s be clear about that: it doesn’t mean “father”

But the slang endearment, popular on Twitter and Instagram (among other platforms), usually serves to express respect/adoration for a male authority figure. The female equivalent would be “mom.” Writing on her Tumblr in November 2014, 18-year-old singer Lorde explained the meme this way:

Youths often use this expression as a compliment; it means “adopt me/be my second mom/I think of you as such an incredible mother figure!”.

Though not always family-friendly, the daddy meme often has a sexual undertone. If you weren’t feeling attracted to someone, chances are good that they wouldn’t want your “daddy”/”mom”. In March 2018, GQ attempted to quantify how often celebrities were “daddy” on Twitter – and found that Zayn Malik, Drake, and even The Biebs get frequent “daddies”.

Where it Began

This particular, laudatory use of “daddy” — and others like it, more on that in a moment — has its origins on teenage fan websites. It was probably Lorde’s 2014 “mom” tweet to Kim Kardashian that first introduced adults to this term; since then it’s become popular among teens, ironic adults, and some die-hard Trumpies.

When discussing the history of “daddy,” however, things become a bit more nuanced. Eve Peyser suggests it has something to do with “daddy issues” and some larger incestuous questions. Alana Levinson recently featured for Mel in which she traced back the sexualization of “daddy” through popular music and kink culture. Here’s how Levinson explains the connection between BDSM and modern daddy meme:

It’s easy to overlook that “Daddy” is actually a sexual fetish. According to an anonymous 28-year-old woman, using the term Daddy provides just enough semi-roleplay without having to go all in or engage in full immersive roleplay is like having the right amount of sexual stimulation without going full leather or engaging in full immersive roleplay.

In this context, “daddy” serves as an invitation to explore the dominant/submissive dynamic, which doesn’t always need to be overtly sexual. It could be funny, playful or simply strange.

Not everyone finds this context humorous or playful, however. On August 20, Internet troll Shanley Kane declared in a series of profanity-laced tweets that the term “daddy” originated among marginalized queer subcultures and its use outside those cultures was an act of “appropriation.” This sparked an array of outraged, mocking, and occasionally threatening responses under the hashtag #daddygate.

Kane later acknowledged that many subcultures use the term “daddy,” so we’re content to put that controversy behind us.

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Are you over 17? Well then…maybe not. If you can comprehend the potential political and psychosexual repercussions of using “daddy,” then perhaps it’s also time for a thesaurus.

Alternatively, you could use the teenage compliment as an ironic/subversive critique (!). Unfortunately, this territory has become well-trod and somewhat tiresome – especially after #daddygate – but if you’re reading this then chances are good that you already are behind in terms of irony and subversive critique anyway.

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No, it has nothing to do with dads at all. Instead, it serves as a commentary on hero-worship and power dynamics – sometimes even an attempt at reversing them. According to Peyser in New York magazine

A grown woman says “daddy” with intention, self-assurance, and plenty of cynicism. We adopted “daddy” as our own, which allows us to gently poke fun at patriarchal structures without taking away from their meaning.

The funny part about “daddy” is that we have full control over how it manifests; in time, perhaps even becoming our own daddy!

We all can agree that this was much more enjoyable when the teens were involved.

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After 2years Dating Anna Osceola Engaged With Jon Hamm “The Mad Men Costars”

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After Years of relationship, Jon Hamm and Anna Osceola Are Engaged!  It’s been quite the journey for these two, but finally their engagement is official!

The Mad Men costars first met on the set of AMC series in 2015 and began dating by 2020. Since then, they’ve  seen out for meals, playing tennis and having fun at the beach. In September 2021 they even took a romantic trip to Italy together.

Hamm and Osceola made their official red carpet debut at the Oscars afterparty in March 2022, and since have  seen at numerous other high-profile events. On the Howard Stern Show in September 2022, Hamm openly discussed his relationship with Osceola – even hinting that they may get marry one day.

When Anna Osceola Engaged With Jon Hamm?

Since they recently announced their engagement, the exact wedding date remains uncertain. We can expect them to tie the knot sometime in 2023, though an exact date hasn’t disclosed. We’ll have to keep our eyes peeled over the coming months to see if they share any further updates.

Hamm and Osceola have been dating for two years, though they kept most of their relationship under wraps. They  only photographed together at red-carpet events.

Love is in the air! It appears Mad Men brought more than fame and fortune to its star cast. Rumors have  swirling around Hollywood for some time now that show lead actor Jon Hamm engaged to former co-star Anna Osceola. Although neither have made an official statement yet, People Magazine confirmed the news yesterday.

But that’s not all we’re interested in. Many fans have been curious about Osceola’s role on Mad Men, and now we know! She played Clementine – a receptionist at a spiritual retreat where Jon Hamm’s character Don Draper attended.

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Hamm and Osceola first met on the sets of Mad Men in 2015, while she  still engaged to Jennifer Westfeldt. Following its end, they reportedly kept up with each other’s activities; they seen buying coffee together in 2017. But it didn’t until May 2020 when they photographed together on a beach that rumors about their relationship began to circulate.

Since then, they’ve  seen at various events and parties, such as the Vanity Fair Oscars party this year. On Howard Stern’s show earlier this year, Hamm described their relationship as “comfortable” and hinted at a potential marriage and children.

Before dating Osceola, Hamm was in a long-term relationship with Westfeldt but they ended it amicably. Reports indicate their split caused by Jon’s substance abuse issues and frequent partying.

Anna Osceola is a Massachusetts native who moved to California to pursue an acting career. According to her IMDb profile, she has appeared on shows such as Greek, NCIS and Law & Order: Special Victims Unit. We cannot wait to learn more about Hamm and Osceola’s engagement, and we wish them every happiness in the world!

A short Bio of Anna Osceola

Anna Osceola, 34 years old, had a small role in Mad Men’s final episode as the receptionist at Esalen – the spiritual retreat attended by Jon Hamm’s character (Don Draper). Beyond her acting career, little else is known about her beyond what has published online or on TV shows like Confess, Fletch and I’m Not Here; plus some appearances on movies and shows such as Narcos: Mexico.

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Everthings About Shawn Mendes & Sabrina Carpenter Dating Real Or Rumor?

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Hello guys here we will know all about dating of Shawn Mendes & Sabrina Carpenter Real Or Rumor Now days fans are searching more about Sabrina Carpenter many of followers wanted to know Are Shawn Mendes and Sabrina Carpenter, in love? On Monday morning, Grammy nominee, 24, and “Nonsense” singer-songwriter, 23, were seen taking a spotted together in Los Angeles.

This outing only fuels romance rumors after celebrity gossip site Deuxmoi recently shared a tip suggesting the couple was dating. Reps for Shawn Mendes and Carpenter have yet to provide a statement.

Mendes, who recently revealed his decision to cancel his tour due to “the emotional strain,”  previously linked with singer-songwriter Camila Cabello. They began dating soon after the June 2019 release of his single “Senorita.”

They remained together throughout the pandemic, quarantined together in Miami and adopting a dog named Tarzan. On November 17, 2021 they issued joint statements via Instagram announcing their separation.

“Hi guys,” read a statement from us. “While we have decided to end our romantic relationship, our love for one another as human beings remains strong,” it added. “We started this journey together as best friends and will remain so.”

“We are so appreciative of your support from the beginning and look forward to continuing this journey with Camila and Shawn,” read the statement.

Previously, Sabrina Carpenter  linked to High School Musical: The Musical: The Series star Joshua Bassett. Dating rumors swirled during the summer of 2020, however when Olivia Rodrigo released her hit single “Driver’s License,” many fans speculated she was actually Carpenter referring to as the “blonde girl” in her lyrics.

Sabrina Carpenter and Bassett never officially confirmed their relationship, but they have frequently discussed each other in interviews. In July 2022, Carpenter released her fifth studio album Emails I Can’t Send which detailed the love and heartbreak she experienced over the past two years as well as the online scrutiny she endured.

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Earthquake in Pakistan and Afghanistan claims the lives of at least 12 people

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Earthquake in Pakistan and Afghanistan

At least 12 people died and more than 200 were injured when a powerful earthquake shook parts of Pakistan and Afghanistan. The 6.5-magnitude earthquake that rocked Nepal caused destruction to buildings, caused landslides, and sent people fleeing into the streets.

On Tuesday evening, an earthquake hit a mountainous region in Afghanistan’s northeast near the border with Pakistan.

From Jurm Valley in China, earthquakes could be felt as far away as India.

“It was an absolutely terrifying tremor,” Kabul resident Khatera told AFP news agency after fleeing her fifth-floor apartment.

Nine of the confirmed deaths occurred in Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, Pakistan.

According to Afghanistan’s health ministry spokesman, three more people were tragically lost in Laghman province near Pakistan’s border. One child was among them, AFP reported.

Many families had been away from their homes celebrating the Persian New Year or Nowruz when the Earthquake in Pakistan and Afghanistan struck.

Emergency workers in Khyber Pakhtunkhwa reported to AFP that the damage found so far had been less than anticipated.

However, the remoteness and rugged terrain of affected areas could potentially hinder relief and rescue operations.

Many in the affected regions braved near-freezing temperatures to sleep outside after the earthquake, fearing possible aftershocks. Some had fled their homes barefoot when they felt the shaking.

Islamabad, Pakistan saw the evacuation of a multi-story residential block after huge cracks appeared in its structure.

Phone lines have been disrupted, and in Pakistan, the highway in the Swat area has been blocked due to landslides.

Pakistan Prime Minister Shehbaz Sharif has instructed disaster agencies to take immediate measures for people’s relief.

According to the European-Mediterranean Seismological Centre, earthquakes were felt across a 1,000 km area that includes India, Uzbekistan, Tajikistan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Afghanistan, and Turkmenistan.

Earthquakes are more likely to occur here due to their location at the intersection of the Eurasian and Indian tectonic plates.

In June 2013, more than 1,000 people died when a 5.9 magnitude earthquake hit Afghanistan’s Paktika province – the country’s deadliest earthquake in nearly 25 years.

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